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誰かの母親になり、母親でいつづけるということは、そうなる前からもっていた有形無形の「自分のもの」たちを少しずつ捨てることである。 無形というのはたとえば、自分の時間とかこだわりとか趣味とか表現とか天職とか生活スタイルとか、そういうもの。
これは嬉しいことでもあるし残念なことでもあるし、そのどちらでもないともいえるし、もちろん、いいことでも悪いことでもない。

と、「母」についての一般論のように書いてみるが、一般的ではないのだった。
はじめからほとんど何ももっていないような人もいるし、持ちつづけられる人もいるだろうし、一気にたくさん捨た人もいるらしいし。

家族を「自分のもの」にしてしまうという罠にかからなければ、わたしが空っぽの「おばちゃん」になっても誰も困らない。当たり前だ。
身だしなみには気をつけようとは思う。

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